Turning kids on to gardening

SOUTH BURLINGTON, Vt. (National Gardening Association) - Most adults who garden began this hobby as children. And more than one old-timer has sworn off gardening because he hated it as a kid. Here's the secret to the difference.

If you want your child to love gardening, the best things you can do, in order of importance, are the following: 1. Show them how much you love gardening just by reveling in your own garden every day. 2. Surround them with great gardens. That doesn't mean a show place. It may mean a messy, riotously colored cottage garden; decorative little getaway; or profuse pots-full. (Remember that everything is bigger through kids' eyes.) 3. Give them good gardening experiences. These will be great memories in years to come. Kids have so much competing for their attention: television, computers, sports, and a bazillion "planned" activities from library hours to birthday parties, from sleepovers to dances -- at as young an age as the fifth grade. So gardening has to stand on its own. Rooting cuttings in water doesn't cut it. But what does? Experts disagree on whether to include gardening among children's required chores or to take advantage of their interest on planting and harvest days and do the work yourself the other 120 days. The balance is to teach respect and enjoyment of the family gardens and make sure there's a garden a kid can call his or her own. Here dirt and water are the stuff of magic, and surprises lurk between rows. Anyone can succeed under the sun. "I did it myself" is a powerful thing. - Recognize that kids' gardening priorities are different, well, practically opposite of adults'. - Let kids choose what to plant. Offer guidance and make sure there are some sure-success plants among their picks. But if they want beets, roses, and petunias, why not? - Relax your standards. Crooked rows or weeds as pets are fine. - Transplanting is fun, even if your child plays with plants the way they move action figures or Barbies about. But remind them that plants' roots need some time to grow in one place. - Leave room for good old-fashioned digging. Holes are a highly popular landscape feature. Look for worms. Add water, and frogs appear. - Model the message that some insects are beneficial, and even destructive bugs are highly interesting. - Do behind-the-scenes maintenance of kids' gardens, keeping them edged and weeded. Don't expect kids to do all the watering and pest patrol. - You decide: when it comes to impending doom (no pumpkins appeared on vines; the daisy is uprooted and sunning on the deck) do you add a pumpkin from the farm stand? Replace the daisy? Some parents use loss as a lesson; others smooth things over for success. - Remember: One of the best things you ever grow may be a gardener.

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Reprinted by Catholic Online with permission of the National Gardening Association (http://www.garden.org).