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Contemplative Prayer and Stillness

What does it mean to be still?

It is difficult to be still in our overly busy world. It is easy to think that being still is a waste of time.  It is easy to think that we have to always be doing something. 


CORPUS CHRISTI, TX (Catholic Online) - "How sweet the moonlight sleeps upon this bank.
Here will we sit, and let the sounds of music
Creep in our ears, soft stillness, and the night
Become the touches of sweet harmony."
  (William Shakespeare)

Ours is a busy and noisy world.  We are always on the go.  Many of us have too many events on our calendar.  We rapidly move from the latest business deal to the next soccer game or music recital.

If we have a few moments to ourselves, we automatically check our email or our Facebook account.  For many people, email is not fast enough, we have to use text messaging in order to get an instant answer. 

Lao Tzu, a Chinese philosopher (600 BC-531 BC) once wrote: "To the mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders."

Last week, we considered the importance of silence for the cultivation of contemplative prayer.  Let us now consider something related to silence which is stillness. 

It is difficult to be still in our overly busy world.

It is easy to think that being still is a waste of time.  It is easy to think that we have to always be doing something. 

Immersed in our American consumeristic society, we can be obsessed about productivity; that we have to be always doing something. 

What does it mean to be still?

The dictionary tells us that stillness refers to being motionless, stationary, undisturbed, tranquil, silent and calm.  As a noun, stillness means the absence of motion. 

The absence of motion; that's a good way to look at this word and why it is so important for the reception of the gift of contemplative prayer. 

We all need moments during our hectic day when there is an absence of motion, and not just when we are sleeping. 

Saint Augustine once wrote: "There is this place of undisturbed quietness where love is not deserted; see how things pass away and give place to others; fix your dwelling firmly there.
Put your trust, my soul, in whatever it is you have received from him.  Entrust to him whatever comes to you; for you shall lose nothing.

Those parts of you that may have decayed, they too will receive a new flowering, and you shall find yourself healed. 

All that you have seen ebbing away from you, there shall be restored, given fresh form, and renewed, bound ever more tightly to yourself.  Remain in the presence of God who alone stands fast and abides" (The Confessions, IV). 

How can you begin to achieve stillness in your daily life?

Begin by putting into your daily routine twenty to thirty minutes every morning of centering prayer or lectio divina.  This is where we need to start.

"When you give yourself to prayer, if you are, as far as possible, free from all distraction, and if the verse comes suddenly to a halt on your tongue and immobilizes your soul in the silence, and if, independently of your will, this silence remains in you, be sure you have entered the peace you seek.

And again, if in every thought that arises in your soul, and in every remembrance and point of contemplation that come to you in this peace, you find tears filling your eyes and flowing with no effort down your cheeks, be sure that the wall before you is down. 

And if you find from time to time your intellect has become immersed in your heart without your having foreseen it and apart from any regulation, and if it remains there for a moment, if after that, you feel your limbs seized, as it were, by a great weakness and peace reigns over your thoughts, if this state continues, be sure that the cloud had begun to cover your dwelling with its shadow" (Isaac of Nineveh, Ascetic Treatises, 12).

Prayer also is a discipline and the discipline of prayer will begin to bring stillness into your life.
Wake up earlier so that you can be immersed in total silence and be still. Turn off the cell phone, the email and the Facebook account.  

Do this every day.

"Be still, and know that I am God" (Psalm 46: 10).

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Father James Farfaglia is a contributing writer for Catholic Online and author of Get Serious! - A Survival Guide for Serious Catholics.  You can visit him on the web at www.fatherjames.org. 


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Pope Benedict XVI's Prayer Intentions for January 2013
General Intention:
The Faith of Christians. That in this Year of Faith Christians may deepen their knowledge of the mystery of Christ and witness joyfully to the gift of faith in him.
Missionary Intention: Middle Eastern Christians. That the Christian communities of the Middle East, often discriminated against, may receive from the Holy Spirit the strength of fidelity and perseverance.

Keywords: contemplative prayer, centering prayer, christian prayer, openness to God, father james farfaglia, catholic spirituality, year of faith, silence, stillness, discipline

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  1. Rita (Riki) B.
    6 months ago

    IN T H E S I L E N C E

    In the silence of my heart
    I come to love You
    Oh My Lord
    To praise and worship You
    My Master and My Savior
    No words are spoken between us
    Only so soft a whisper
    And in my soul
    An outpouring of so much
    Undeserved love and grace
    For
    How often do I desert You
    Thinking You don't love me
    Forgetting about You
    Oh, how stupid and ungrateful
    Then I am
    For
    Without You I'm nothing
    But a trembling reed
    A creature full of fear
    But,
    Your creature sure I am
    For this immensely grateful
    Oh You, fullness of my soul
    Reason for my existence
    Sole purpose of my life
    Object of my deepest thoughts
    My God and my Almighty
    I will serve You and obey
    Surrender to Your Will divine
    Embrace me with Your burning warmth
    Cradle me in Your Fatherly arms
    Oh, my well-beloved
    Let me borrow from Your Love
    Let Your Mercy shine upon me,
    Your poor and littlest child
    So, that with Your Grace
    I will proclaim
    Your Greatness,
    Your Goodness and
    Your Name
    Through my work and being !!

    Rita Biesemans 7-27-1999

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