Did your dad disappear? One in three U.S. children live without father
Majority of today's social ills can be traced to uninvolved dads, experts say
While many people in the United States say they espouse traditional family values, very few appear to put the principles in practice. It's estimated that one in three of children within the U.S. live without their father. These figures are especially high in the Southern states, which ordinarily take pride in being the bastion of bedrock American values.
Vice President of the National Fatherhood Initiative Vincent DiCaro says that the nation's social ills, such as crime, poverty and substance abuse are the direct result of this trend. Deal with absent fathers, he says, and the rest follows.
People "look at a child in need, in poverty or failing in school, and ask, 'What can we do to help?' But what we do is ask, 'Why does that child need help in the first place?' And the answer is often it's because [the child lacks] a responsible and involved father," he said.
As evidence, a startling statistic is offered. Married couples with children have an average income of $80,000, compared with $24,000 for single mothers.
"We have one class that thinks marriage and fatherhood is important, and another which doesn't, and it's causing that gap, income inequality, to get wider," DiCaro said.
Men who abandon their families are usually concentrated in inner cities. In Baltimore, 38 percent of families have two parents, and in St. Louis the portion is 40 percent.
The lack of live-in fathers also is overwhelmingly an African-American problem, regardless of poverty status, census data show. Among blacks, nearly five million children or 54 percent, live with only their mother. Twelve percent of black families below the poverty line have two parents present, compared with 41 percent of impoverished Hispanic families and 32 percent of poor white families.
Most painfully, in all but 11 U.S. states, most black children do not live with both parents. In every state, 7 in 10 white children do. In all states but Rhode Island and Massachusetts, most Hispanic children do. In Wisconsin, 77 percent of white children and 61 percent of Hispanics live with both parents, compared with more than 25 percent of black children.
"Something has to be done about it, and it starts with the culture and reversing the attitude that marriage is not important. The president has a role to play in that. He's a married African-American father who can probably make a huge difference with words alone," DiCaro says.
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Pope Francis Prayer Intentions for December 2013
General Intention: Victimized Children. That children who are victims of abandonment or violence may find the love and protection they need.
Missionary Intention: Prepare the Savior's Coming. That Christians, enlightened by the Word incarnate, may prepare humanity for the Savior's coming.
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