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The Meaning of Mary and Mary's Choice

Mary was there at the Incarnation, Birth, Crucifixion, and Resurrection of the One whom Christians proclaim is God Incarnate

She lived in His presence. She still does. In every encounter, she surrendered to love and was changed. She was a woman prepared by God and continually surrendered to His love. This is the meaning of Mary. She is our model as well as our mother. 

Mary, Mother of the Lord

Mary, Mother of the Lord

CHESAPEAKE, VA (Catholic Online) - "At the announcement that she would give birth to "the Son of the Most High" without knowing man, by the power of the Holy Spirit, Mary responded with the obedience of faith, certain that "with God nothing will be impossible": "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord; let it be [done] to me according to your word." Thus, giving her consent to God's word, Mary becomes the mother of Jesus. Espousing the divine will for salvation wholeheartedly, without a single sin to restrain her, she gave herself entirely to the person and to the work of her Son; she did so in order to serve the mystery of redemption with him and dependent on him, by God's grace". 

"As St. Irenaeus says, "Being obedient she became the cause of salvation for herself and for the whole human race." Hence not a few of the early Fathers gladly assert: "The knot of Eve's disobedience was untied by Mary's obedience: what the virgin Eve bound through her disbelief, Mary loosened by her faith." Comparing her with Eve, they call Mary "the Mother of the living" and frequently claim: "Death through Eve, life through Mary." (CCC #494)

There are very few records of Mary's explicit words in the texts of the New Testament of the Bible. However, there is no lack of her presence at the most significant events in the life, ministry, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ and therefore in the great events of salvation history. She always encountered God - in profound ways - from the beginning to the end of her life. She lived in His presence. She still does. In every encounter, she surrendered to love and was changed. She was a woman prepared by God and continually surrendered to His love. This is the meaning of Mary. She is our model as well as our mother. 

Mary was there at the Incarnation, Birth, Crucifixion, and Resurrection of the One whom Christians proclaim is God Incarnate, Jesus Christ. She was there throughout what are often called the "hidden years" in His life at Nazareth where ordinary work was ennobled and childrearing forever changed because of His participation. His disciples spent three years with Him, during His "public ministry", but Mary spent thirty three years!

We should remember and reflect on the truth that in the earthly life of the Redeemer, every word he uttered - at every age and stage - and every act he undertook was redemptive, revealing as it does the very life of God and the mystery of heaven touching earth. Because of that, every moment of His presence among us reveals the deeper purpose of our own lives when they are lived entirely for Him.

Mary was there in all those pregnant moments of His complete thirty three year earthly mission of love. His redemptive presence forever changed the history of the world and can do so in our own personal histories if we learn how to surrender to His invitation to love and choose to live as she did. The mission of the Redeemer continues now for all who have the eyes to see His presence still walking and working among us; and the ears to hear His loving words still being spoken amidst the cacophony of our daily lives. Mary did.

His presence forever changed the world that we are all living in. We are welcomed into a new relationship with Him and therefore with this world that He still loves, if we invite His redemptive presence into our lives, co-operate with grace in order to change ourselves and allow ourselves to be prepared from His coming. Every waking moment can now be filled with the invitation of grace, if we learn to discover their deeper meaning and make them our own. If we learn to live our entire life as, an invitation to love, an encounter with the God of love, as Mary did, we will find our lives transformed by the Son whom she bore for the whole world.

She was the first evangelizer and the first disciple of her own Son Jesus. She gave the first Gospel testimony to her cousin, Elizabeth, without words, as the Redeemer in her womb drew the child in her womb, John the Baptizer to Himself. He did so from the Throne he had established in Mary's womb. Jesus, Love Incarnate, drew John from the very first home of the whole human race, a mother's womb. At the beginning of that missionary encounter, Elizabeth greeted Mary with profound humility, saying "who am I that the mother of my Lord should come to me?" Then the son in her own womb became the first convert "in utero" as he leapt in praise of the Maker of the Universe, taken residence in Mary's womb.

John the Baptizer, the last Prophet of Old Testament and first of the New, was prepared in a womb - and drawn by this amazing grace - without a word being spoken, through Mary's witness of surrendered love. This event, traditionally called "The Visitation," recorded in the Gospel of St. Luke (Luke l: 39-45), is meant to continue in our lives as we carry Jesus forward in time. It can through the witness of our surrendered lives ...


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  1. abey
    4 months ago

    Mary's humbleness to the words from God reflects a line drawn for the woman of the day.

  2. AME
    4 months ago

    Beautiful! And something more to contemplate: There is a discovery in science that a mother and an embryonic person exchange stem cells through the placenta. Sometimes a baby's stem cells even work their way to organs and heal the mother. Now consider what this means for Mary and Jesus! Mary carried Jesus' body with her not just during her pregnancy, but for the remainder of her life! And Jesus carried Mary's body with Him, even into his glorified body after the Resurrection! Think about what this means for the necessity of the Marian dogmas in order to be the New Ark of the Covenant!

  3. Tom McGuire
    4 months ago

    Surrender of Mary models the most important characteristic of spirituality. Your article articulated surrender very well. The Canticle or as better known the Magnificat does more than surrender it is a prophetic call that describes the action of God. We do well to pray this prayer everyday. Do not we all suffer from the arrogance of mind and heart, especially when we cling to our own way rather than surrender in love? When we judge the other and fail to love our enemy?

    The Canticle of Mary. Luke 1: 46-55

    And Mary said:*
    “My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord;w
    my spirit rejoices in God my savior.x
    For he has looked upon his handmaid’s lowliness;
    behold, from now on will all ages call me blessed.y
    The Mighty One has done great things for me,
    and holy is his name.
    His mercy is from age to age
    to those who fear him.
    He has shown might with his arm,
    dispersed the arrogant of mind and heart.
    He has thrown down the rulers from their thrones
    but lifted up the lowly.
    The hungry he has filled with good things;
    the rich he has sent away empty.
    He has helped Israel his servant,
    remembering his mercy,
    according to his promise to our fathers,
    to Abraham and to his descendants forever.”

  4. mike robertson
    4 months ago

    This fine article hit me hard when I saw the word "Choice". Yes, thank the Blessed Mother in daily prayer and when we see her in heaven for her choice. It was the most precious choice made in human history. Today, tragically, "choice" refers to the killing of girls and boys in their mom's womb. This Christmas I offer the sadness I feel to Our Lord. I feel sadness because Catholic democrats, some of whom sit tin the pews near me at Mass, voted twice for a man who voted for the legal killing of girls and boys outside of their mom's womb even after they survived the attempt to kill them in their mom's womb.It is not shocking that the killing of unwanted boys and girls is tolerated in this immoral world. It is still shocking to me that Catholic democrats can go to Mass on Sunday and vote for such a wicked platform on Tuesday. So "choice" has been warped into an ugly world in our society. So has "gay", but that is an argument for another day. Merry Christmas.

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